Old And New Holiday Traditions

Jerrie Castro • Nov 26, 2019

Old Traditions We Look Forward to During the Holidays
and New Ones We Can Create

I have come to know that genuine friendships, whether deep or casual, truly have no barriers of any kind. Why? If a relationship is blessed by God, the Holy Spirit blinds us from seeing or focusing on age, race, creed, color or situations in life in a negative way. Godly love transcends everything.

Friends help one another during trials and they also help bring one another to new life and growth in the Holy Spirit. And the Spirit is energizing when we are most in need. My experience is that authentic, Christian friends convey this energy of the Spirit to and for one another in amazing ways at just the right time.

I’m a widow, mother and grandmother ready to celebrate my 79th birthday and have a wonderful young, single East Indian friend in her mid-thirties. Sadly, her mother died four years ago, at age 50. She went through a terrible time of grief but then found Christianity in its fullness, receiving the Sacrament of Baptism in the Catholic Church two years ago.
Thanksgiving Tablescapes

Now, as a Christian, she is excited to start celebrating Thanksgiving, Advent, Christmas and all the holy days leading to Epiphany in the Christian Tradition. It will be a little different because the rest of her family is not Christian but, as her friend, I will be there to support her and help her experience the richness of our traditions, liturgies and celebrations of Jesus, the Christ Child, and our Savior.


For me, Thanksgiving is all about thanking the Lord for who he is, what a great nation America is and for what he has done for me, my family and friends and all of his beloved children everywhere during the past year.


It is also a time of the year that my artistic side blooms. I love to celebrate the joy I have for nature’s vibrant colors and rich textures of the season by bringing them indoors. One of my favorite expressions is through creative “tablescapes” and making the feasting of the holiday meal exceptionally memorable for everyone. So, this is a tradition I have created in my home for my family and friends.

Our old traditions still include a roasted, twenty-five-pound turkey with all the trimmings. The meal is a cooperative effort though, as the whole family is involved in preparing the feast together. Maybe this is unique, I don’t know? All I can say, is it’s a lot of fun and works fantastically, as I have a large kitchen. I also, open my home to those who are alone or to my friends who may be having a tough time during the holidays. Our Lord always seems to make the perfect arrangements and I am blessed.
In the evening one of our favorite things to do is gather around the dining room table to play Balderdash in a big group. My adult grandchildren especially love this tradition. Not only does it remind them of their younger years, but I think it’s because of all the desserts associated. 

So, let’s revisit the thoughts that our traditions connect individuals as a family, whether a family of origin or an extended or blended family. Traditions also create a bridge between the young and the old – between the past and the present. Does your family celebrate with a special dinner feast? I may be old fashioned, but I believe that it is worth the effort and pleasing to God.

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