The Blessings of Holiday Nostalgia

Jerrie Castro • Dec 01, 2019

The Blessings of Feeling Nostalgic During the Holidays

It’s that time of the year. I feel it in my bones; in fact, in my whole being. The weather is fluctuating; the cooler evenings of fall suddenly snap to a crisp chill. My skin reacts and I know change is coming. It comes every year, usually about the same time. I know it’s mid-fall and winter is on its way. Soon it will be one of my favorite seasons of the year.

Everyone has one or more favorite times of the year and every season has its own beauty. When I share or experience what I call nostalgic blessings, either by myself or with a good friend, there can be a mutual sharing of emotions and feelings. Some describe the experience as, “that warm, fuzzy feeling”. Nostalgia experts say this is good. I say, not only is it good but if it’s from God and you give him credit for beauty− whether in his natural creation or inspired by the Holy Spirit in and through his creatures− it’s holy. 

Nostalgia can ground us and help us to endure our daily trials. How so? Taking time to revisit happy memories of good times in the past or even of loved ones who are dear to us keeps us connected. I cherish revisiting those memories, whether in my mind or actually on the spot. It can definitely be a diversion from a trial at hand. Taking time for a new adventure and building new memories grounds and connects us as well. 

Healthy nostalgia brings me joy. But, for those who are having an extremely difficult time suffering through trials, it can be sort of a bittersweet consolation. According to nostalgia expert Krystine Batcho, a professor of psychology at Le Moyne College in New York, “nostalgia is seemingly an important, universal emotional state that peaks during the holidays”.
This picture speaks to me; the gate is open.
“Come in and warm yourself by the holiday fire.
Your friend is waiting to drink coffee with you from a white porcelain cup.”

I can really get into historical and personal nostalgia approaching Thanksgiving and Christmas. This is when I have good sentiments about times of the past, when I might not have even been alive yet. I have a special friend who loves three story Victorian houses as much as I do and we both enjoy drinking great coffee from a white, porcelain, Victorian coffee cup. We laugh about how some people might think it’s weird, but for us it’s special and It is fun to savor the moment of coffee together and talk about why it’s so delicious when we drink it from a white porcelain cup.


This is how good nostalgia can take us through a trial, by turning our thoughts to a positive, happy memory. It doesn’t matter if I actually reenact the memory or just see it in my imagination, it’s a blessed moment. These blessed moments can often etch in my mind in such a way that just recalling them in times of trial soothes my soul.


If nostalgia includes a mental journey back through time, it adds a fourth dimension to the present. If meditation is the crucial point of the Eternal Now, nostalgia forms a special continuum to the timeless past, expanding our concept of self. Our futures can often be vague, and very unpredictable; but the past represents a finished whole that cannot be destroyed, harmed or tampered with. So, my advice is: why not give nostalgia a try?

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